The fourth door is marked: BEHAVIOR
As the door opens, a message is displayed:
Our behaviors are based on emotional needs and mental forethought as our reactions evolve into responses. Behaviors that are consciously initiated and completed give our conscious mind clues as to our true goals and desires. We can then seek out what we really want rather than what we “should” want or what others want for us.
As past fear, pain, and negative programming is released, our behavior is appropriate to the situation rather than a projection from our fears. Therefore, we have more positive and successful experiences, which builds our self-esteem. We learn to take responsibility for our ALL our behavior, which is now more loving and unselfish.
We also learn to accept the phases of our life and appreciate the beauty and wonder of being who we are now. We can look back to who we have been and the society that we lived in and find the foundation upon which we have created our present life in our present society. We can also look ahead to a time and the person whom we have not yet experienced.
Fortunately, there are mentors who can guide us as one day we will guide others.